Death… It’s Not Always Peaceful: Part 2 5/5 (47)

Birth and DeathRegardless of who we are, where we live, and what our life experiences may be—there are two things everyone of us are guaranteed to experience: birth and death. Acupuncture helps with both.

If you didn’t read my previous blog, Death… It’s a Hard Subject: Part 1, you may want to catch up. We talked about treating tumorous cancer-related symptoms such as nausea, constipation, edema, pain from a tumor, fear, and anxiety.

In today’s blog we are going to talk about how acupuncturists can help terminally ill patients with advanced cancer as they decline toward death.

First, let’s talk about some general information about the stages of death you should be aware of.

I was blessed to learn a lot about the dying process through my experience interning at hospice while attending school at Pacific College of Oriental Medicine, San Diego. I’ll share a few thoughts here, but I’d suggest you take the time to familiarize yourself with this process at a deeper level. If you Google search “Stages of Death” and focus your reading on hospice websites, there is a lot of really helpful information to get you started.

Although every patient’s circumstances will be somewhat unique, there are general commonalities to be expected in the dying process.

The PHYSICAL Process of Death

Physical Process of DeathThe patient will most often experience an “orderly process” of physical changes in which systems of the body will progressively shut down. 


As the heart shuts down, blood doesn’t pump normally. The arms and legs feel cool because blood isn’t reaching the limbs. Limbs may become purplish and/or blotchy because when blood isn’t pumping at full capacity, it pools at the joints.


Less blood going to the kidneys leads to a lack of kidney function. At first, the patient will experience a decrease in urine flow. With a decreased flow of urine, toxins accumulate–leading to dark and/or bloody urine. As the kidneys stop working the patient ceases to urinate.


Loss of blood to the brain and chemical imbalances as the organs shut down contribute to mental changes such as disorientation, confusion, agitation, and the inability to recognize family members. Often patients experience hallucinations as well.


Breathing may become irregular and labored. It is normal as the lungs shut down to notice long breaths followed by shallow ones. The patient may stop breathing for a short time and start back up again. Fluid accumulating in the lungs leads to congestion and gurgling, which is often described as the “death rattle.”

*The death rattle is a common term used in the hospital to describe the sound of fluid accumulating in the lung and throat at the end of life.


As the body slows down it is less able to use nutrients and fluids, which leads to a loss of appetite. Sometimes drugs the patient is taking for pain will lead to nausea, vomiting, and loss of appetite. Tumors and fluid accumulation also alter digestive function.

Within the process of shutting down, the patient experiences general overall weakness and fatigue, which progressively lead to symptoms such as increased sleep, loss of bladder and bowel control, and even coma. Yet, at the very end—it is common for the patient to experience an uncharacteristic burst of energy. Family members who are not aware of this phenomenon may be surprised when the patient suddenly wants to talk and eat. This is a great blessing and should be recognized as an opportunity to say final goodbyes.

The EMOTIONAL and SPIRITUAL Process of Death

Emotional and Spiritual DeathThe emotional and spiritual aspect of shutting down is different for each patient. Sometimes a person is emotionally, spiritually and mentally resolved to let go, but the body hasn’t finished its natural shutting-down process. All you can do is wait and offer comfort. Other times the patient has mental and emotional work to do before they are ready to let go, which also involves waiting–but acupuncture is really great during this transition.

It was an eye-opening experience for me to learn that not everyone dies by peacefully falling asleep. Although it isn’t easy to accept, it is important to understand. Some patients experience an easy transition to death, while others experience agitation, distress, and irritation known as “terminal restlessness.”

*Terminal restlessness is a condition where instead of experiencing a peaceful transition to death, the patient becomes agitated, distressed and irritated within the final stages of dying. It is unpleasant for the patient and their loved ones to watch and experience. 

While I was a student, experienced hospice care workers explained that there are multiple theories behind “terminal restlessness:”

Theory #1: Chemicals

The biological effects of chemical toxicity build up, metabolic changes, pain, and urinary or fecal retention—lead to a distressful dying process. Some patients have had more toxicity introduced into their system through the cancer experience. The solution is sedation, drugs for pain, and proactive treatment to avoid bowel impaction and urinary blockages.

Theory #2: Attentive Care

Patients who do not feel emotionally and/or physically safe and taken care of during the dying process experience terminal restlessness. Whereas those who feel their needs are met are more relaxed and prepared for death, thus experience an easier transition. The solution is attentive care.

Theory #3: Emotions

Life experiences and disappointment leading to anger, fear of death and spiritual distress. One solution is to offer sedation drugs to calm the patient. If the patient has spiritual awareness, prayer and someone to offer religious support is helpful.

The fact that there are multiple perspectives to consider as to WHY some die peacefully and others experience distress is helpful to consider. It doesn’t change the fact that either scenario can happen, but it does give us some insight into how best to care for the patient, especially from an acupuncture perspective.

Hospice Workers LOVE Acupuncturists

Hospice care providers are ALWAYS overjoyed when it’s Acupuncture Day at Hospice—especially on a day when they have patients suffering from “Terminal Restlessness.” Although the staff doesn’t quite understand HOW we treat, they recognize the amazing changes that occur in their distressed patients.

This is just one more reason it’s awesome to be an acupuncturist! We’re great at treating agitation, distress, and irritation—regardless of their source.

Treatment Tips 

Make sure you have extra resources besides needles. Sometimes an agitated person thrashes around and needles just won’t work. Besides using my fingers, here are a couple of EXTRA items I always bring with me.

Press Tacks:

Tacks are great. I like to put tacks on important calming points. They are also great because if you leave them on after treatment, loved ones can simply touch the tacks with their finger to activate them again later.

Stimplus Pro:

If you are visiting a patient in the hospital, you might have to follow “rules” that prohibit you from using needles. If you have a Stimplus Pro you can treat any point on the body and ear.

StimPlus Pro

Treatment Strategies

dying patient treatment strategies

You’ll notice I’m not focusing on treatment regarding the physical processes of dying. There really aren’t any points to speed this process along. It just depends upon how strong the patient’s constitution is. Your goal at this stage of the game is to offer comfort.

Extreme Agitation, Distress, and Irritability

First order of business, treat Shen Men on the ear. You can use the Stimplus Pro or simply drop a press tack onto the point. Shen Men helps with irritability, agitation and distress–AND it has the added benefit of helping all other points you treat become more effective.

Shen Men

I also like to treat the Jing Well points on both the hands and feet with the Stimplus Pro at 20 Hz for 15-20 seconds per point. The Jing Well points work well for multiple reasons.

1) They are easy to get to.

2) They are excellent for agitation and mania because they clear extreme heat.

3) They bring FAST results.

Bonus: Jing Well points also are great for pain anywhere along the channel because the greatest concentration of qi accumulates there. Often, the Jing Well point is enough to stop pain immediately.

Jing Well


TE 5: Clears heat and resolves toxins.

LI 11: Clears heat and resolves toxins.

Both of these points also resolve interior wind. Often the patient will be agitated and thrashing while sleeping. Clearing wind will help to calm them down.



In my last blog I taught about treating Pain from a Tumor via Auricular Therapy. Any pain in the body can be treated with Auricular Therapy.

Here are two charts I like to have on hand as a guide for helping me resolve pain quickly. My favorite treatment device is the Stimplus Pro to find the electrically active points. I then leave Ear SEEDS (not tacks) on the points so the patient or caregiver can press on the points later. Tacks are too painful if left on the ear so I choose seeds.

Tumor PainMusculo Skeletal Points

Relaxation and Comfort

I like to spend time using my hands to feel for blockages. Your hands are the most comforting tool you have. Here are some favorite points I like to manipulate to help the patient relax and calm down.

CV 17: The Lung, the Pericardium and the Heart channels cross here. This is a great point for calming the emotions, opening the chest, and expanding breathing ability.

ST 13-15: Feel to see if the patient is blocked in this area. If they are, go down and open up ST 44. Once ST 44 is open you’ll find the chest opens as well. This is important. Anxiety and fear are held in the chest. When you open these points the patient can breath deeper. Remember, breath moves qi.

LR 13: Use gentle pressure here. Liver 13 is the front Mu of the Spleen and it also moves Liver Qi. This will help the patients back and shoulders to relax and give them the ability to breath deeper.

Foot Massage: Gentle foot massage with emphasis on the Ba Feng points to bring the energy down and open-handed massage up the inner calf along the Kidney, Liver, and Spleen channels to move energy back up.

Ba Feng

What’s NEXT?

I hope you’re finding this series helpful.

Once you’ve treated a patient who is suffering from “Terminal Restlessness,” you’ll never forget watching the transformation as they move from suffering to peace. It is truly a beautiful experience.

Death is hard enough for everyone involved. There’s no need for such anguish.

I have one more blog post in this series on death which involves helping a patient who is having a hard time “letting go.”

You’ll be excited to learn about an amazing protocol I have to share called: “The Rainbow Treatment.”

Auriculo box1Stay tuned until next time,


Kimberly Thompson, L.Ac.

Acupuncture Research Analyst

Miridia Technology 


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Dr. Kimberly Thompson, DACM, L.Ac.

Dr. Kimberly Thompson, DACM, L.Ac. is a US licensed acupuncturist in the state of Idaho and certified in the treatment of acupuncture, Oriental medicine and Chinese herbology by the National Certification Commission of Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine (NCCAOM). Kimberly wears multiple hats in the acupuncture community. She owns her private clinic, Meridian Family Acupuncture. She has spent the last 10 years working for Miridia Technology as an acupuncture Research Analyst–where she helps plan, develop, and integrate modern diagnostic and treatment tools for the ever-evolving scientific world of acupuncture. Kimberly is a world-renown teacher, blogger, columnist, and mentor in the acupuncture community.

2 Replies to “Death… It’s Not Always Peaceful: Part 2

  1. Respected Madam, I always watch for your posts and read them
    regularly, because they are more educative and useful to all Healers.
    Pl enlighten me more on the use of Stimplus Pro .Thanks. R.MADHAVAN.


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